I'm not in horoscopes because it's a complete waste of time. But there's a way to know the future with the man you are with by creating your future in the now.

Start by having a dating plan. Write down what you want to accomplish this year in your love life and how you will make it happen. This is about taking responsibility for your happiness instead of giving someone control over your life.

When you have a plan, it is almost a guarantee for success. Successful individuals plan to win. They plan to succeed. This sort of mentality almost guarantee that you will win in your love life.

Your plan is for your eyes only. It is not to be shared with the man you are dating. When you are tempted to go off course, go back to your plan. For example, if you come up with a plan on how to deal with him if he doesn't call, you'll respond to him using logic when you haven't heard from him instead of using your emotions.

An emotional response will virtually guarantee that he will pull AWAY from you but a rational approach will have him pull towards you. If you haven't heard from in a while, you'll plan to get busy with your own lifIf you've been frustrated with the way your relationships have been in the past or the way it seems to be going now, there's hope.

We often hold ourselves to a certain standard and these expectations can cause us to create disappointments in our lives.

You may have a certain pattern with men and want to change how you relate. You may have chatted with your girlfriends about wanting MORE from your relationships and deep on the inside you want to know how to naturally charm a man and have him commit to you.

It starts with making a decision to get really serious about YOU. There's no time like starting the new year off with a deeper commitment to yourself. The more committed you are to yourself, the more irresistible you will be to men.

Men are turned on by women who are loyal to themselves because it shows that they are self-sufficient. The funny thing...when you are more into you, you communicate that you are not making him responsible for your happiness. Men love to be needed but when you do not NEED a man to make you happy, he'll find you far more attractive.

It is an air of being a happy independent yet available chick that men gravitate towards. When you can trigger a man's inner world by remaining a little out of reach, it will build an amazing romantic tension that will cause him to beg and beg for more. Add a dynamic personality with a sassy sense of humor and he'll be floored for good.