some women will date a man for a number of months and get physical with the man they are with. If this is your situation, more than likely you will not have a commitment from him.
How can I know this for sure? Well, men can sleep with women and enjoy spending time, they can fill up their boredom with anything that will give them a good time. Furthermore, they can have a physical attraction for a woman without wanting a long-term commitment.
When you understand the way men work, you will live your life in the sort of way that will GUARANTEE a commitment from a man if you're really into him.
When a man commits, it is because he has fallen in love. In order to fall in love, a man has to go through an internal process and this process is based on the attraction that is building inside of him from the woman that he is with.
If you're not able to build an intense attraction with a man so that he FEELS his desire for you deep within him where it literally burns him up, chances are you will not be his wife.
He'll only want you for a wife when this process within him has been met and he can't see himself wanting to be with another woman. Are you the last woman your man will be with?
I cannot state this enough...if being with your man is built on just having a physically intimate relationship, he has nothing more to look forward to. Especially if you haven't done the work to build a deep emotional attraction to the point where he feels addicted to wanting you forever.
Wednesday, January 7, 2009
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